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Wednesday, March 29, 2006

HOW TO WIN WOMEN OVER ALMOST INSTANTLY

THE ONE ATTITUDE THAT IS THE KEY TO HAVING IRRESISTIBLE APPEAL TO WOMEN AND GETTING LAID WITH THE WOMEN OF YOUR DREAMS

Once, one of my super-scoring buddies invited me to go to a party with hm. Not
having much of a social life anyway, I accepted the invitation, and besides,
this guy REALLY knew how to get laid. I sort of looked at myself as being one of
those small sucker fish that attach themselves underneath a shark's mouth and
live off the bits the shark spits out.

Anyway, we were wandering around this huge apartment complex, looking fo the
party. We were walking down a hallway when we passed an open door, and there was
a party going on, but it was definitely NOT the party we had been invited to.
This was a formal affair; everyone was very well dressed, and my buddy and I
were both wearing jeans and scruffy tennis shoes.

Through the doorway I saw a stunning blonde in a low cut dress, surrounded by
guys trying to hit on her. My buddy saw her too, looked at me, and went right
into action. I saw him walk in the door, cut through the crowd of guys, say
something to her that I couldn't hear, and hand her a card and a pen. She wrote
something down, and out came my buddy, smiling ear to ear. He had gotten her
phone number!

I asked him what he said, and he told me, "I just walked in there, looked at
her, and said, `Excuse me. I saw you through the doorway, and unlike these
gentlemen here, I don't have time for small talk. I'd like to take you out. Can
I have your phone number?'

Now, it's not always necessary to be that direct. But it is necessary to grasp
and use the attitude my buddy had, the super-attitude which will get you laid
more than any line, trick, good looks, fancy car or fortune. The attitude is:

I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN.
I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MYSELF.
I MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD WITHOUT APOLOGY.

Do you really want to get laid with all the women you could ever possible want?
Then STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR YOURSELF! Don't make excuses for wanting to look at
a beautiful woman. If you're caught looking, and she asks what you're dong,
tell her!! Tell her you're enjoying studying just what a perfectly beautful
body she has, and to heck with her if she's too uptight to appreciate a real man
who doesn't apologize for knowing what he wants!

Stop making excuses for wanting to meet a woman! Stop making excuses forwanting
to ask a woman out, and most of all stop making excuses for wanting to FuCK the
living shit out of a woman you want! This kind of direct, powerful, go-for-it-
attitude is an incredible turn on for women that can't be beaten!

Listen! It isn't even the words you use that convey this attitude! It's our
tone of voice, your facial expressions, your posture, the speed at which you
speak, everything non-verbal about you will show this attitude far more han
words.

This doesn't mean you have to be arrogant, or lack a sense of humor. You can be
warm and friendly at the same time you are being direct and powerful. Th key is

finding the balance. Once you do you will not be able to keep women away from
you.

Now, it's easy to talk and tell you that you should have this attitude, but that
won't help you to actually get it.

Here's the other attitude/belief you'll want to master if you really want to be
a success at scoring with women like a madman.

I DON'T GET RATTLED BY SETBACKS
BECAUSE I LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES.

I remember watching a TV show where the host was interviewing a movie
star/karate champ who shall go nameless. The host asked him what the secet of
his success was, and the karate guy looked at him in that wooden way of is and
said:

"When I first started out competing in Karate Tournaments, I wasn't that good. I
got beat a lot, but I always learned from my mistakes. Instead of crying over my
losing, I just studied what I would have to do differently the next time and
whenever I met the same guy again or a different guy in the same situation, I
ALWAYS creamed 'em."

Look - unless you are unusually lucky, chances are you are going to make a few
mistakes as you practice the ideas in this book. And, as great as these ricks
are, they won't work every single time.
Unless you know how to learn from your mistakes and accept and occasiona loss,
you will get nowhere. The most successful guys I know at scoring all have two
great strengths: They have the first power attitude we've just looked at and
they also know how to accept getting rejected without it bothering them and they
learn from their mistakes.

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